Your best friend’s wedding is coming up. You’ve known him for years, and you want to give him the proper send off as he enters a whole new world, certainly unbeknownst to you. How do you give the proper best man speech? The best best man speeches are those that include a healthy combination of humor and sincerity. But don’t be afraid to give a funny best man speech; laughter is the best way to relieve tension and make people feel comfortable while still maintaining sincerity, if done the right way. Here are three tips to giving a funny best man speech that everyone will love.
Make it applicable. You are trying to be funny in a way that pays tribute to your friendship. Telling a crude, irrelevant joke will tell your audience that you have given little thought to what you are saying. Instead, tell a funny story about your friend. Maybe something from your childhood. People will find this endearing, while still getting a great laugh out of it. This is true sincerity, and it will give everyone a kick.Keep it light. Any funny stories or jokes you tell about your friend need to be things that people will find funny and harmless. Stories that are too inappropriate or too controversial is going overboard. Make it funny, but keep it relatively innocuous. Nobody wants to hear about all the bad things your friend did in Vegas – especially his new wife. Keep it simple, keep it funny, and keep it light.Rely more on your sense of humor. Never think that including a couple of jokes that you found in some web site last night is going to make your best man speech funny. Most probably the audience has heard it several times. There should be an element of surprise and uniqueness in the jokes you add in your speech. So, try to share jokes that are related to the groom or his bride or both of them and rely on your sense of humor than anything else.Maintain a balance. After each humorous part of your best man speech, follow it up with something serious. After a good laugh, it is important to bring everyone back to the seriousness of the occasion. After all, your best friend is getting married; that is a big step. Tell a funny story, then talk about how much your friend means you to. Your friend and your audience will see that you not only have the ability to make them laugh, but also know the importance of the event.Should you necessarily be funny? Perhaps this is the most important tip for funny best man speeches that you need to consider. You needn’t be funny just for the sake of being funny. If you or the groom are persons who are rather serious in nature and there’s hardly any real funny moment from the groom’s life that you can remember or think you could share with others, it would be better to change the tone of your speech. Let your speech be genuine and heartfelt and you’re going to shine nonetheless. Just make sure you are confident, effortless and smiling while making the speech.
These five simple tips, if used correctly, will ensure that your best man speech is both funny and meaningful. This is a big day for your friend, and as such, it is a big day for you as well. You want this speech to be a memorable one for both its laughs and its seriousness. Using these tips will guarantee this, getting the most out of your best man speech.
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